Sad watching so many lesbians and bi women rejecting womanhood

uroborosjohnson · 2020-12-06T01:59:47+00:00

You mean a "woman" is someone who identifies with regressive stereotypes. Just say it.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-12-06T01:59:04+00:00

V A L I D

uroborosjohnson · 2020-12-05T00:47:30+00:00

Any way to join that server?

uroborosjohnson · 2020-11-10T02:02:34+00:00

This trailer gives the whole movie away lol

uroborosjohnson · 2020-11-10T01:59:54+00:00

I'd definitely play dumb but mention how I remember my church burning her books when I was a kid. Good segway if the woman is GC to talk about how they're burning her books now

uroborosjohnson · 2020-11-05T00:40:23+00:00

My work has a special slack channel for women and there's a whole discussion about being more inclusive toward non-binary employees. Why does this fall on the women's slack group? Non-binary people are not women, according to them. Why does the group for women have to provide this inclusivity but not a group for men?

uroborosjohnson · 2020-11-02T17:27:18+00:00

I have no problem with this. When Sam gestates a child for 9 months and births it from his vaginal canal he can certainly claim the title of mother.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-13T16:25:23+00:00

Love seeing this on a feminist board.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-09T00:10:34+00:00

She's a straight woman so I'm hoping we can entirely avoid the topic

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-07T17:35:44+00:00

They are more representative of incels than they are of women.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-05T02:12:37+00:00

"Mean lesbians won't sleep with me!"

-~~Men~~ Brave women

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-05T02:11:35+00:00

Notable that trans men unsubscribe from subreddits that don't validate, whereas trans women just get them banned entirely. I wish transbians reacted like this trans man.

Kudos to gay men for keeping their spaces

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-04T19:43:31+00:00

Sam Bee has had multiple children, while working too if I recall correctly. I'm guessing it's partially to do with her ultrawoke staff at Full Frontal, and her desire to be on the right side of history without critically examining what she's saying. Perfect example of a woman who has reaped the benefits of feminism and has even fought her own battles but is hurting the next generation of women.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-04T19:40:50+00:00

What region are you in if you feel comfortable disclosing it? I'm also in tech and in a woke city

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-04T19:38:21+00:00

I would love to know these discord servers. I'm a lesbian moving to a woke city and even one fellow terf to get coffee with would make it bearable.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-04T19:37:05+00:00

I'm moving to a very woke city to work for a very woke company and I'm dreading it. I'm mid twenties but still. It sucks because I want to check out the local gay scene but I'm sure it's gonna be TQ shit as far as the eye can see. What I wouldn't give for some sort of way to meet likeminded people. However any attempt at networking would definitely make one a target for sure.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-03T00:35:13+00:00

Sam Bee's strong TRA views have been so disappointing. I loved her on the Daily Show.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-10-03T00:30:11+00:00

"Suppressing speech is justified to protect against authoritarian regimes that would suppress speech."

-You

uroborosjohnson · 2020-09-29T23:37:32+00:00

Unfortunately it's a cross-country move so only virtual chats for now. I'm just so tired of pretending I agree with all the LGBT trans stuff, when I find it personally offensive as a lesbian. But I also don't like the feeling of having to defend myself constantly or being written off as a bigot.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-09-29T23:35:52+00:00

Good to know! She's not trans. We also have some differing political views that are not deal breakers in my mind but could be in hers. I don't like how everyone is becoming increasingly isolated and unable to listen to any views outside of their own. So I'd rather this not be a dealbreaker.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-09-29T22:27:47+00:00

I actually haven't signed anything. But the location and price of the place is great and there's not much else on the market that is in my price range. And most of the stuff that is really sucks.

I don't know if she'll be the agree-to-disagree type or not. But I do know her politics from a brief conversation with her and she's definitely the TRA type. I'd hate for politics to get in the way of interpersonal relationships, I'm a person who truly believes in getting along with people I disagree with. But I'm worried she won't be able to get along with me, and/or that she'll drive me crazy and I'll be dodging and weaving every conversation for the next year

uroborosjohnson · 2020-09-12T04:35:28+00:00

That is infuriating

uroborosjohnson · 2020-09-11T18:06:02+00:00

I'm thinking about doing that. I'll probably just decline the position though.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-09-10T23:53:03+00:00

I really appreciate you sharing your experience! It's tough with the lesbian dating pool being as small as it is to begin with

uroborosjohnson · 2020-09-10T22:42:06+00:00

Are late 20s single lesbians allowed in?

uroborosjohnson · 2020-09-02T17:57:50+00:00

I'm sure male "lesbians" will love citing this one to hesistant young lesbians on dating apps.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-09-01T22:54:51+00:00

How to convince young lesbians confused about their sexuality to have sex with you: the article.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-31T16:28:00+00:00

It would be internally consistent with their ideology, however their hatred of women having boundaries would mean they would find a way to rationalize being against it.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-18T04:01:33+00:00

There's a lot of women in this position I think. I wish lesbian bars were still a thing, I think one trip to one in my early 20s would have forced me to reconcile with my feelings for women a lot earlier than I did.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-17T20:31:55+00:00

I'm moderate/left-leaning politically and spend a lot of time in radfem circles. I have to saw I haven't seen any anti-intersex,anti-mentally ill talk there. Most women there have compassion for people like Caster Semanaya, and I've seen some pretty good discussions on mental illness, especially from radfems who suffered from eating disorders, body dysmorphia, gender dysmorphia, etc.

I'm not discounting your experience, just throwing in mine.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-16T01:22:40+00:00

They targeted Gaybros. Gaybros.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-16T01:10:07+00:00

Same for me. It scared me a little, how much I was able to deny something so basic. I even had myself convinced I was "straighter" than most girls because I couldn't form attachments to the men I tried to date. I could never watch movies with lesbians/female nudity in it and also attributed it to my excessive straightness. I even got mad at what I saw as lesbians constantly being in movies and TV (lol).

All it took for this to break down was some exposure to lesbians that I couldn't ignore (a coworker). That broke the dam and it was actually pretty painful after that. The intimacy I've been craving and searching for, I could have had years ago.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-10T23:09:14+00:00

They never will. They have gained so much ground on the backs of the gay rights movement.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-09T19:36:45+00:00

You can change the color theme in your preferences. The darker theme is much more usable to me

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-08T02:10:17+00:00

I agree with you here but I honestly don't trust society to ever have a conversation about brain differences without using them to reinforce biases against women, which are typically so deeply ingrained people (including scientists) don't realize they have them

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-07T17:44:39+00:00

Yeah there's nothing in anyone's DNA that makes them less or more able to write code. The modern world is so far divorced from whatever conclusions people try to draw from evopsych bullshit. In fact, when female owned companies get beyond the initial funding hurtle, they often do quite well.

Also, someone here pointed out the irony that for all of TiM's talk of having lady-brain, they seem to congregate in fields that stereotypical "lady brains" wouldn't. Exaggerated brain sex ideology is a cover for misogynists, no matter what side it's coming from.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-07T17:38:13+00:00

These types of comments don't make us look good

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-06T16:47:55+00:00

Yeah. I think the interview would have benefited from a clear definition of terms.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-06T03:41:36+00:00

I'm not sure what to think about this. Debra Soh is a pretty big advocate of the idea that gender is innate, and that claiming it's socially constructed is a myth. She also says she feels like a boy because she does MMA 🙄 . She defends the Google Memo.

She seems to be a gender essentialist from the other side.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T22:51:59+00:00

I discovered LGBDropTheT on Reddit shortly before its ban, and it makes me sad. Definitely a place full of humor with a more diverse set of people, in both orientation and political views. Here's hoping the subscriber count here ramps up.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T22:48:17+00:00

God I wish lesbians bars were a thing. Or even just bars, at this point.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T22:32:58+00:00

Someone should really tell those women in Saudi Arabia that there's been an easy way out this whole time.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T20:56:42+00:00

Yeah I definitely don't think the backlash against her is totally unfounded, but just that the social media pile-on is exaggerating things a bit

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T15:23:37+00:00

Lol I watched the L word when I was questioning, and it made me hope to god I wasn't gay. Nowadays it's got a soft spot in my heart. Like a sexy, titillating, crazy trainwreck

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T15:21:53+00:00

It's so funny. This shit has basically made being gay into a "lifestyle" instead of a sexuality, which is exactly what my homophobic mother has always described homosexuality as. Anyone over 25 or so can remember how the "gay lifestyle" was a dogwhistle. And now gay as a "lifestyle" is not only encouraged, but codified as such by the left.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T15:15:08+00:00

If I'm not mistaken, she mentioned that covid lockdown felt like "jail". Now if people want to interpret that in the least charitable way possible and think that she actually meant staying in her home was as bad as being in jail, then I have a hard time taking them seriously. There's something to be said for good faith interpretation. I really don't think that Ellen thinks her house is as bad as jail, and if I did I'd also have to cancel just about everyone who jokes that something "makes them want to die" any other common hyperbolic turn of phrase.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T15:10:00+00:00

I don't know where I stand on the Ellen issue yet, but a good illustration of your point is this Washington Post article about the situation.

It didn't get to anything even potentially cancel-worthy until the very end, and instead presents a series of tweets from other people (and a YOUTUBE COMMENT) as supporting evidence. What the fuck is happening to journalism.

If she's really an abusive boss and then okay, but a photo with a republican, a conversation with someone who made homophobic remarks, and some joke about a birthday party (?) should not justify the cancelling of a gay icon. We already have enough of a communication problem in the modern world. It's not like Ellen doesn't know the hurt and pain of homophobia.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T15:00:19+00:00

Exactly.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T00:33:16+00:00

The Sundering of the Elves, but if Tolkien was a weeb

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T00:27:14+00:00

When I was in high school (before this stuff really took off) I once bought protein powder at the store. My mom, an avid hater of "dykes", sat me down because she was worried I was trying to become a man. Thank fucking god I didn't have a woke online community to turn to after that incident.

Always crazy when the conservative, homophobic hysteria overlaps with the new progressive left.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T00:22:32+00:00

that's awesome

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T00:22:11+00:00

Imagine living through WWII and being woke scolded by anime profile pictures over biological reality

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-05T00:13:44+00:00

It's basically a girl that simps for the shittiest of men

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-04T20:45:49+00:00

Turns out the true fetishists were women this whole time!

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-04T03:12:46+00:00

Not a good look. This ain't it, chief. Educate yourself.

uroborosjohnson · 2020-08-04T02:33:08+00:00

There is so much wisdom in this thread.

uroborosjohnson