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[–]vitunrotta[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm sorry to hear about your shitty ex. Then again, gladly he is an ex now.

I really don't know if talking back to a psychologically(/emotionally) abusive spouse will help. As we know, women are most prone to violence in their own homes. I don't know what your situation was exactly, but it might have been a good idea to NOT say anything. There's a good chance your ex could have started using physical violence when his mental torture wouldn't work anymore.

I hope you're okay and safe now!

[–]FearfulFriend 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm okay. I still have to deal with his stupid BS since we have children together, but it's not nearly as bad as it was when I lived in the same house with him.