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[–]Lesbionia 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

My first instinct was to tell you to go quietly and to slowly distance yourself from this friend. However, I think you could get through to her if you wanted to. If your job/social life/etc wouldn’t be at risk from telling her that she’s being ridiculous and her boyfriend is in fact a man, you could go for it. She will likely be mad, especially since she’s probably feeling a lot of pressure to appease her boyfriend, but she obviously needs a wake up call from someone.

Good luck with whatever you choose to do. I’ve had to cut off more than a few people over this shit and it’s not easy.

[–]fuckupaddams[S] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

No, you don't understand. I'd agree with you if this were about any of my other friends, but she specifically has an agenda. She's knee deep in this shit, has been for years. She'd cancel me hard, with glee, if I ever said anything on the contrary. She's gotten super mad before when I've even politely asked her wtf she's talking about. She thinks she's the savior of the gays or something.

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If she can do actual damage to your life, sounds like you need to get off her crazy train and fade out then.

[–]fuckupaddams[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Can you tell me about the people you've had to cut off because of this?