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[–]BEB 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I have not seen that movie in decades, but used to love it.

I think that my friend is into critical theory because of critical race theory.

And I think her support of gender ideology stems from the fact that she's very empathetic and probably since many of her students now manifesting as trans have mental health issues (this has been shown in studies), she's supportive of them and defensive of what she perceives as an attack.

Which I didn't do, I only said that Queer Theory was a load of dangerous tosh, whose founders and their ancestors were advocates for incest and/or pedophilia, which they were. And that teaching it in schools was leading to children not having a sense of self and that was dangerous.

She's never had children, and I know that many child-free women and women who haven't taken care of children can still understand children, especially that children are very malleable, but she can't. She takes children at their word, so if they say they're trans, they are trans.

And I think a lot of people are like that now - they treat children like mini-adults, not realizing that many children want and need boundries and direction while pushing at boundries all the time.

Anyway, we have mutual friends who will intervene if asked, and I will invite her to meet after COVID and maybe we can repair a long and beautiful friendship. Thank you!

[–]our_team_is_winning 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Any theory called "Critical" anything is bad news, isn't it. All used to divide people and foster hatred. Although "critical thinking" is a good thing, and that's gone out the window! Empathy is "I understand you have a problem and feel bad. I'm sorry." "Oh, you say you're trans? Sure!" That's called "folie à deux" I believe. It seems like we keep lowering the age of adulthood. The human brain isn't done developing until 25. If anything, we should be raising the age! A child claiming to be trans is like a child (or adult) claiming to be a vampire. (Cue the South Park episode!) I understand friends arguing over differing views on say, the death penalty, abortion, legal marijuana, etc. but how can anyone have a "view" on biological reality??? My brain can't get round this.

[–]BEB 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Mine neither.