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[–]soundsituation 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh I definitely think you're right. Just saying it doesn't make sense to have this dichotomy in our cultural consciousness; if vanilla only meant non-kinky in a neutral way I'd be fine with it but its conflation with prudishness results in a false choice that fails to describe a majority of women (which I guess is just OP's rant repackaged, but hey, nothing wrong with commiseration).

[–]Comatoast 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's weird that it's presented that way, but hearing everyone here gives me a little more hope that I'm at least somewhat normal within the company here.