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That's what I noticed too with women who are into BDSM - that they had to constantly talk about how great it was in order to justify it to themselves.

What's truly frightening is that I watch a lot of non-US TV shows and in countries that still have very real oppression of women, BDSM is now sometimes portrayed as something cool by the wealthy, hip characters. It's like the TV creators are trying to gaslight women who still routinely get beaten by their rage-filled husbands into thinking domestic violence is something that they should enjoy sexually.