When I first found Redt, I was amazed at the women who were quick to jump into 'my boyfriend did xyz' posts kink explaining , defending; kink proselytizers. That behavior is usually exhibited, IME, by people desperate to justify their own behavior to themselves, especially in attempting to pressure other woman to enter into the practice - the more who participate = "this practice really is normal, and the nagging feeling I'm having about it being not quite right can be dismissed." So very sad and alarming. It really read as desperation sometimes. Those women even posted their lengthy 'splains on Radfem subs. Call me not nice^TM but that behavior is not feminist. Do your thing, but don't recruit others into the hell you've chosen for yourself. (Strangulation specifically)

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