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[–]MarkTwainiac 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

By this person's "logic" no one is a woman or female if she's on hormonal BC that causes ovulation to cease; she's post-menopausal; she's had her uteri and ovaries removed due to diseases/medical conditions affecting the female reproductive tract; she's a nun; she's celibate by choice or due to life circumstances; she's not menstruating coz she's lactating and BFing; she has a condition like vaginismus that makes PIV sex impossible; she can't engage in PIV sex coz of conditions like vaginal atrophy and pudendal neuralgia; she's a het or bi new mum who is eschewing PIV sex in the post-partum period coz that's recommended for health reasons; she's a het or bi woman whose male partners are infertile; she's a het or bi woman whose male partners can't sustain an erection sufficient for PIV sex, or these men no longer have any libido; she's a het or bi woman faithful to her male partner but he's lost his genitals due to accidents or war injuries; she's het or bi woman with a male partner she is committed to & won't cheat on but for various reasons (war, having work abroad) they are physically separated...

Similarly, by this person's dick-focused "logic," prior to the age of menarche, girls aren't female - they're men. Ditto het and bi girls and women prior to the first time they have PIV sex.

Though this person sees capacity to conceive via PIV and to bear children to be the only thing that makes any of us female, in reality women who live out a full life span will naturally spend more than half our lives - meaning the majority of our lives - unable to ovulate and bear children. For most of us, the average time between menarche and menopause is 40 years - but the average female lifespan in a large number of countries nowadays is well over 80. In Japan and Hong Kong, it's 88+; in Spain, Singapore and Switzerland it's 86+... and so on.

I think you hit the nail on the head when you called this poster a troll and super homophobic. I'd bet good money he's also a guy. Look at the user name: lease a new car - how clever.

[–]oofreesouloo 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Thanks for your thoughtful answer and support! I know. This troll's logic is super flawed. At this point, I'm just having fun answering him lol. Yes, he's a guy 100% for sure, they're really clockable despite their attempts to masquerade. They aren't very... original, let's say.

[–]MarkTwainiac 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm with you 1000%. It saddens and enrages me the kind of shit that's hurled at lesbians nowadays. Sickening. Best wishes & admiration to you.