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[–]Apricot_Ibex 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He thought he was gay because he didn’t conform to male gender role stereotypes, I gather? But being gay is about feeling attraction to the same sex, not about adhering (or not adhering) to certain gender roles. “Trans non-binary” is the biggest bullshit mindfuck....it means literally nothing as it is an automatic negation of its own flawed concept. He’s just a dude who’s apparently unique in some ways.

It’s not okay if he was bullied for being gender noncomforming when he was younger, but the right response would have been to shrug off other people’s stupid comments or seek therapy and deeper self-acceptance. This is a horrible example for his sons. Dad liked baking cookies and the color pink, so he’s now called “they” and has a new name. I totally agree, he needs therapy for his midlife crisis, not to subject his sons to this.