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[–]msteacherlady 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When I was a teen I had no idea this was even something to worry about. I didn't become sexually active until I was older, and by that time I had seen all the criticism on the internet. It made me super self conscious. Plus all the porn out there with bare vulvas and perfect or augmented tits.

A friend learned about my hangups and once said, "No one cares about your tits. Men are dogs, and they don't care about any of that." Correct on all counts as it turns out!

Anyway, some of these guys may just be engaging in a lil' tit for tat but I think some are genuinely just grossed out by vaginas and may be gay or even asexual. They've got some shame around that and so they lash out. They've got a lot of reconciling to do, but of course they won't.