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[–]lefterfield 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I completely agree with you, and I didn't mean to imply that OP had it equally hard as the ex. Breakups are still painful, though, especially one as serious as considering engagement. It's in part my feelings toward friends I've lost recently, and how awful that was for me. I can't imagine losing someone I had thought to marry. I'd get over it, as I'm sure OP will, but it would still hurt in the moment.

That aside, yeah, the ex has the far worse end of it. Even a short time on T screws up women's bodies for life and destroys their health, not to mention the cultish and abusive people you've surrounded yourself with.