A man/transwoman commits suicide after botched neovagina surgery. These surgeries are dangerous!

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[–]shveya 41 insightful - 1 fun41 insightful - 0 fun42 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

I remember this person from neogavina disasters as well. He would speak to everyone there kindly and with sincere concerns, without shrieking about how everyone was a "terf" or a bigot. He tried to contact the hospital where he had the surgery done for help with the terrible results, and his butchers always brushed him off and ignored his concerns. He looked so happy and hopeful with his stuffed shark in the hospital photos. Realizing he was lied to and then pushed aside must have been heart-breaking. One of his last posts was about being happy to go to a Summer Solstice event with friends. Dr. Mengele would be proud of these "surgeons" for their butchering and sterilizing of gay people.

[–]jet199 35 insightful - 2 fun35 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

While he was nice to us on neovaginadisasters he also went on the trans subs and slagged us all off and denied having any problems. Like many TiMs he was attention hungry and so had different opinions when with different crowds.

[–]Comatoast 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I saw a lot of flip-flopping between wanting to totally detrans and then feeling alright again. I don't think that they were exactly too mentally stable after that surgery broke down every last ounce of their self esteem. I don't want to handwave shitty behavior, I'm just feeling a little more emotional about this than I should. I'm probably about to start my period or something. Fuck.

[–]shveya 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not surprised, I don't think I could expect those guys to be 100% nice to women. That is pretty shitty though.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah I am looking at his comment history on Reddit now and he seemed hostile towards GCers.

[–]Comatoast 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's a shame too, because they had terrible self esteem about their own appearance (which is pretty commonplace in.. well, tons of people anyway) but they still had a pretty face that probably would have been attractive regardless of transition.

[–]shveya 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I thought he had a pretty face too.

[–]Marsupial 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

There are also other posts where it's clear that he's overexagerrating the negative effects of the surgery and is imagining things (like the poop smell) that aren't even there. I doubt there was any actual problem with the medical procedure. This was a very mentally ill person who had unrealistic expectations of what the outcome would be and they shouldn't have been recommended transition surgery to begin with, they should have been prescribed heavy doses of anti-depressants, anti-anxiety medication, therapy and probably other treatments as well.

[–]shveya 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not surprised that he'd exaggerate, these dudes are absolute drama queens. The photo he posted of his neo "vulva" did look pretty bad, but I can't imagine that a "labia" made from testicle skin could look like a normal, human body part. They probably get a lot of these unrealistic expectations about plastic surgery from other TIMS lying about how gynos can't tell the difference between vulvas/vaginas and inverted penises.