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[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 4 fun -  (4 children)

So is this like a demigirl? Too much mental math.

I am so sorry.

[–]fuckupaddams[S] 16 insightful - 6 fun16 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

Next he's gonna say he's a lesbian and it was lesbian sex we had.

[–]PassionateIntensity 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Or insist you're bisexual/gay in denial, because he was always a woman.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The whole thing about this is, which I have posted elsewhere, is attacking the autonomy and lived experiences of people, rewriting it, redefining it to fit their sick needs, is at the very least gaslighting, a failure to enter relationship, an abuse of power, control, an assault on the person, and a failure to allow that person to see the world as it is, changing it to fit some sick narrative.

I am so sorry this is happening to you.

[–]fuckupaddams[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly, if I'm straight, and you retroactively come out and say "I'm a woman," don't try to tell me I'm bisexual (well I am but as an example) to cater to your feelings. This is happening all the time in the lgb community and it's fucking crazy. I know what I like, you calling yourself something you're not doesn't change my orientation.