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[–]vitunrotta[S] 27 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

My own note - I honestly learned about the anatomical details of this very important part of my OWN body just a few years ago, and I'm gonna be 40 soon. Seriously! The hell?! And here we are actually listening to neckbeards and fetishists and allowing them to take ownership of biological women's bodies that are STILL NOT FULLY UNDERSTOOD. Unacceptable.

I was reminded of this as I read that Teen Vogue article about anal. So we teach young women to have it in the butt - and we still don't show them a proper picture of the clit? For fuck's sake. Today I am TERFing aggressively.

Edit: I DID of course know of the clitoris (hallelujah!) - just not how it really looked like in all its beauty, so I clarified that :)

[–]VioletRemi 16 insightful - 5 fun16 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

As a lesbian, it was pretty tough at first with sex, as we with gf tried to repeat what we saw in lesbian porn, and it was not really working at all. And until we sterted learning and exploring our own bodies, and found this wonderful part of our biology, we weren't having much fun in bed, hehe.

[–]Wandering_Idiot 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I feel like some of the newer lesbian porn directed at women can work but all the older crap is directed at men and does nothing for female pleasure.

[–]VioletRemi 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Problem there was not in fact that it wasn't aimed on women, but in fact that it was just show, to look appealing and sexy, but it was not actual sex, and expecially not a lesbian sex. And in most cases it was not very convinient to do as well, and because of scissors we stopped doing any attempt of tribadism at all, as we thought that was the only way. As least our own discoveries were "Eureka!" every time, hehe.