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[–]3MistersAndAMissy 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I am so sorry that you feel you need to justify wearing the ‘sexy swimsuit’ because the other one was dirty. Hugs.

I think your comment illustrates how we feel we have to explain ourselves all the time, especially if our safety is in question.

[–]JoanofArc5 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You're right - I did feel like I had the justify it. I was also wearing it because I was out with my boyfriend. It's true that this bathing suit is typically reserved for banya days, not outdoor activities (I prefer a more sporty one for like...hiking things). But I was still excited to wear it with my boyfriend.

Thanks for catching this. I'm usually unapologetic about my sexuality.