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[–]Ossidiana 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Well, I'm into BDSM and rape-y roleplay scenarios. Are you going to kink shame me?

In my experience, being open about your kinks is a twofold matter. If you're open about your kinks, you are one of two categories of people:

1) a person who's healthily confident in their sexuality, and is creative;

2) a person who doesn't know social boundaries, overshares, and is a creep.

People who have kinks and don't hide them are either sexually healthy, quirky people, or weirdos. It all depends on wether you're simply open about those, or..... if you impose them on others to the point it's just gross (aka what certain TRAs do).

[–]DifferentAirGC 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I don't see how oversharing information has anything to do with creativity.

[–]Catbug 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It doesn’t, it’s just another one of those quips like calling normal people vanilla and boring because they don’t want to have sexual on top of a methed up gorilla or fetishising rape victims. If you don’t have kinks and make them public info you must be a square philistine who doesn’t understand fun.

[–]Ossidiana 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Me neither. That's why I said it's one or the other.