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[–]Jalaces 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm an Old(tm) so to me "he/him lesbians" makes me think of back when being a gay woman was illegal, and butch/femme culture wasn't just for fun or a preference, it was a tool for survival out in public. The butch would be the "man" in the relationship in ways that would let the couple avoid some of the scrutiny and abuse that they'd get if people knew they were lesbians. What are people using it to mean nowadays?