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[–]Maeven 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If children stop crying it's because they're being punished for crying. That's not performative it's abusive. They don't have conscious control over it.

I'm female and yet I stopped crying publicly as a child, too. I know EXACTLY why boys stop crying.

Men suffer from patriarchy? Yes, in some ways they DO.