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[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

For real. It’s beyond narcissism. These nutcases shouldn’t be having kids, period, not adopting either. Think about how insane you have to be to do this? You sibling could die. You could die. Your baby will likely die. All so you can have a baby. Psycho. What dream are they even chasing? The world is on fire and this is their focus.

[–]Aquadog[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My guess is an unsupportive partner who wanted his genes in the babies. Confirmation bias, but while I see woman grieve much more over issues with fertility and are more excited to go through the process of motherhood, they also have an easier time getting to know adoptive child vs. a man.