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They remind me so much of the fat acceptance movement-demanding men find fat bodies attractive and recondition themselves to watch fat woman porn, ignoring the health issues associated with being overweight, and lots of online bullying of fit women or women who lose weight publicly. Both groups have people who instead of working on actual problems in their life and seeking therapy want to demand society rearrange to glorify their unhealthy and dysfunctional “identity”; people with low self esteem who can’t bare to see someone physically fit and mentally stable, or someone who doesn’t put them on a pedestal for their weight/sexuality. And I’ve BEEN obese and had to lose weight slowly and healthily while being bombarded irl with people telling me to “love yourself” by staying fat. It didn’t matter I had my own experience and opinion (being overweight was painful and uncomfortable and a symptom of mental health overeating) they wanted to tell ME what I SHOULD feel and think because of how it made them question their own health and body.