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[–][deleted] 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

As another user has said, I think it's linked to porn, this female hate that has emerged. Porn always dehumanizes women, and when people dehumanize a group they don't see that group as human and history shows us that dehumanizing groups usually results in violence.

This idea too that we can't ''kink shame'' is disgusting too. It's really just saying that men can get away with anything if its linked to sex, which is wrong - men use ''kink shaming'' to get away with shitty behaviour towards women, such as violence towards women.

I think there's also an element of men seeing this moment as a way to what they see as getting back at women for the past one hundred years of trying to liberate us from them.

[–]Sun_bear 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I agree with you regarding kink shaming. I have read quite a few rape cases where the victim was covered with terrible injuries and they've been dismissed because they could be part of 'consentual rough sex' which just horrifies me. You cannot consent to abuse! You cannot consent to being murdered! If a woman is covered in injuries but a rape cannot be proven then the man should at least be punished for actual bodily harm. It is not normal to want to be beaten and hurt during sex, it's suggestive of being broken. It is not normal to want to hurt someone during sex either - it seems evidence of a sadistic and cruel person to me.