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[–]venecia 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I mean, I don't think that's exactly fair. Many patients with advanced dementia can't recall lots of other facets of their core identity. You're just as likely to have to talk them down from panicking about being referred to as the wrong gender as you are to remind them of the current year and that you're not their mother. Some multi-lingual people don't even speak their mother tongue!

That said, I'm interested to know exactly how carers are being told to deal with this. Are they even allowed to fib to patients and ''misgender'' them, even if not doing so would bring them more distress?

Oh wait it's here. Jesus..

They also include advice on how to help a transgender person with dementia to maintain their preferred appearance when they can no longer do it themselves.

So we're to force a dress on a man even if he no longer identifies as a woman? What the what now?

[–]DifferentAirGC 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Has a non-trans person ever fogotten their "gender"?

[–]tuesday 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Yes, i think i'd rather hear about all the thousands of non-trans with dementia who spontaneously switch genders. When it's only the transpeople, and they are reverting back to their bio sex then something's quite off about the whole thing.

And i wonder what percentage of transpeople with dementia that this happens to. Half of them? Ninety percent? i'm guessing it's high.

[–]peregrine_throw 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Long term cross-sex hormone therapy causes brain shrinkage in males. Definitely increases memory problems, mood disorders and dementia risks.