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[–]Fraeulein 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh my god, that is absolutely horrifying! Thank goodness you're okay now. My ex was actually pretty effeminate, and, if not for his deep voice, could actually pass as a girl when he kept up with his appearance (which, after awhile, he stopped doing). Thankfully, our relationship had stayed long-distance all four years we were together since I was just in high school the entire time and we lived 8 hours away from each other. We had come very, very close to meeting up several times and I now shudder just thinking about what could have happened if we did. It's absolutely abhorrent how far straight men with a lesbian fetish can get away with harassing actual lesbians as long as they claim they are a transwoman.

[–]thatradicallesbian 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am SO relieved to read that this creepy older dude with a lesbian fetish didn't have a chance to predate on you in person, especially considering you were just a kid. I'm still sorry you went through that, though. As a fellow lesbian, it sounds extremely traumatic.