I don't mind not being an asshole, it's preferred. My issue in the first place is not where they feel the need to go poop, or them feeling like women. My issue is the insistence that they are women, the prevailing attitude of entitlement, the targeting of children's communities/education in an effort to recruit parents/kids/teens to the ideology, and the destructive behavior towards those that dissent from their opinions. Also all the funding from odd places and accelerationism.

The Cluster B disorders that trend within that community are extremely unfortunate, and my heart goes out to them in that regard. I honestly wish that they didn't feel unwanted, or defeated, lonely or helpless. No one deserves that despair. However, in my personal experiences and in the experiences I've seen discussed by others that are around those with Cluster B tendencies know that the behavior can be internally and externally destructive. Sometimes that destruction doesn't end at getting bored and leaving a place when the topics don't include them. Sometimes it ends in rape threats, doxxing, and other extremely hurtful actions. That doesn't mean that they should be dismissed or not heard, but there are places that exclusively cater to them to make sure that they feel safe and included. We as women also deserve these spaces.