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[–]Spikygrasspod 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It harms men to be the perpetrators of violence and sexual violence? Well apparently they think it's worth it, or they'd choose not to do it.

No, prioritising men is not going to work. Men with a sense of justice don't need us to pander to them. Men who don't give a shit about justice will be pleased with being prioritised, but it won't transform them into allies.

You should argue for what you want, help influence the public discourse by speaking up where you can, and help shape policy by putting pressure on government representatives and companies. Don't centre men, centre the most important goals of your feminism.

[–]respectmyidentity[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They think it is worth it for the same reason women shit on other women. It's validation. That's not true freedom or liberation.