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[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I just don't really have any trouble seeing a things identity as contextual or in flux? It can be an "actual" dog when you meet it on the street or a cat when you give it medication, yeah if I had more information it's not an "actual" dog but it might as well be in some situations? That matters much more to me than what it "actually" is. Maybe I'm not great at expressing it or need to think about it more.

Seriously, I really really hope you take good care of yourself and don’t let this place hurt your emotional well-being

Thanks, aha but it's probably a bit late for that, not your fault. Being here puts me in a state somewhere between manic optimism and soul-crushing despair. I've been doing well at distracting myself from that feeling for months now, but I guess I am still only human and I feel compelled to be around people who don't like me, or at least see me in a way I don't like.

I've just been seeing all that's going on and it really scares me, but thank you for all of the kind words ❤️ and you should take care of yourself as well!

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah the problem is that you are refusing to accept that how you see things may not be universal or necessarily correct, coupled with an inability to consider the perspectives of people who do not see things exactly as you do.

Take care. I don’t dislike you. We fundamentally disagree but there’s no hard feelings towards you.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

❤️ sorry for typing too much, you too!