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[–]BiologyIsReal 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I don't really think any of the GC posters here are "nice" traditionally save maybe worried.

QT posters are neither nice. FAR from it. I don't know why should I be "nice" when the only reason the other side don't call me a nazi or equivalent is because of a rule in the sidebar, which had to be written because of them. And GB is always feigning ignorance about what GC users meant by "women" and "men" even though we know what she meant by "afab" or "amab" despite disagreeing with her terminology.

Sorry, but I'm not a doormat. I'll only be civil enough not to get banned. That it's all.

Flippy left because biology didn't ban a qt user (who honestly i would have banned had I been a mod then)

I wasn't going to ban circling for something that happened before I became a mod right there in circling's thread asking for my removal of the mod team. I'd have never heard the end of it from QT posters if I had done that. And as usual no other mod was around. I asked houseplant if she wanted circling baned and she told me no. Then flippy decided to throw a big tantrum about it and started saying a lot of ridiculous things like my decision would make houseplant leave the sub (right after she said she won't leave because of circling).

[–]beris😎 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wasn't going to ban circling for something that happened before I became a mod

Sorry, that sounded like an accusation toward you, but it was mostly just a statement about flippy's own reasoning. I don't think you handled that situation badly.

QT posters are neither nice. FAR from it. I don't know why should I be "nice"

Again, just an observation, not an accusation. I dont think you have any need or obligation to be nice in the first place. As long as everyone involved knows how to differentiate between nice and civil, there isn't really a problem.