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[–]circlingmyownvoid2[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (17 children)

This has nothing to do with dehumanization and everything to do with rules.

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (16 children)

Clearly the issue of language exists for users here and ignoring our questions isn’t helping this call for removing BIR look any less petulant.

Like, the rape apologia rule had to be made specifically in response to you and yet you’re doing this over the word man and BIR (and everyone else’s) refusal to think man means ‘big smelly ugly violent cave monster’

The rules explicitly state no sexism or misogyny but you regularly post yours.

Should we also instate a rule saying users are not allowed to use the community members as a tool to emotionally self harm? You’ve done a lot of shitty things here to be riding a high horse masks.

[–]circlingmyownvoid2[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

I’m not a moderator.

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

So you’re above the rules? You can say whatever sexist, dehumanising, offensive shit you like without consequence but BIR has to go for using a sexed term you choose to define as an insult?

[–]circlingmyownvoid2[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

If I violate the rules, you can go to the the mods. When a mod does that process doesn’t work.

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

The mods who have been extremely lenient to you? The mods who let you back after dehumanising me because I won’t help a rapist I’ve injured?

Really stop and think about your own shitty actions in this sub

[–]circlingmyownvoid2[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

The mods can do what they want to me. But they haven’t acted on the actions of BIR as evidenced by the fact that the admittedly rule breaking posts by her haven’t been deleted. But no one cares so what’s the point?

[–]loveSloaneDebate King 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

No one has ever cared tho lol

We all complain about the rules and the mods, even on the old sub.

They act when pushed- like with the poster who got blocked for admitting to never disclosing and saying a bunch of rapey shit on the Reddit sub (sextillionaire?) or even when you were suspended or BiR was added as a mod in the first place- but gcdebatesqt has a history of nobody giving a fuck about the rules other than not using tim,tif and tranny.

I guess I’m just wondering if you’re mostly upset solely because she’s a mod? Like are you just completely unwilling to forgive and move past even after we all forgave and moved past what you said (both here and on Reddit when your masks account was banned and you made the CMoV account?)

Eta- regardless of what you choose to do I genuinely hope that you’ll be okay

[–]circlingmyownvoid2[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I guess I’m just wondering if you’re mostly upset solely because she’s a mod?

Yes. And the posts haven’t been removed. It’s not “forgive and move past” because they haven’t been fixed.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Is there a point in removing the offending comment when there’s a whole post about the offense? If anything the comment should stay up for reference sake.

Did you do or say anything to fix what you said when you offended almost the whole sub, including some of the mods who said you were out of line? We all let it go for you. Multiple people let it go and moved on even though you did nothing to atone for it.

Id think we’d need u/peakingatthemoment or u/grixit to step in because I don’t think a mod can mod themselves anyway

Also- it’s been less than a day and no other mods have popped up to address anything so I think you’re pressing the matter a bit soon

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lmao you’re unbelievable. I admire how dedicated you are you always avoiding the point.

[–]BiologyIsReal 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Or more, likely the other mods are not around and aren't aware of the drama yet. Grixit and procelain aren't very active really, so you'll have to wait until peaking is available.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

If the consensus is that everybody can break the rules what exactly is it that you want?

She broke a rule. Once. What do want to happen? because it’s clear nobody else wants her gone, so what will appease you?

[–]circlingmyownvoid2[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Not calling me a man anymore for one. But apparently the rules don’t matter who so I’m probably just gonna dip.

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Will you stop saying shit like men are monsters, men are hideous, men are disgusting, etc etc?

[–]loveSloaneDebate King 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And what I’m saying is she did it once. You act like she does it all the time. My point is not that she didn’t break a rule- she did. My point is she’s human, and otherwise she’s done a good job and if all you need is for her to not do it again then there’s no point in leaving unless overall that’s what you need for personal reasons.

The rules have never mattered and we all know that. Almost all the rules get broken if you look over like any random two or three posts with a decent number of comments. We’ve all called each other things that upset each other, we’ve all been rude from time to time, like- if you need to go then we all get it, but I think it’s a reach to act like the 1,035,644th time a rule was broken this year it needs to be turned into a witch-hunt.

I get you hold her to a different standard because she’s a Mod. Mods deserve second chances as well.

Again, if the sub is too much for you in general please do what you need to do for yourself