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[–]worried19 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I am attracted to cis men and passing trans men. I don't consider myself bisexual.

I'm not one to police what label someone uses, but I'm curious if you've ever had sex with a trans man and how you felt about their naked body. I know for me, as a heterosexual, PIV with male genitals is the major attraction.

[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers 2 insightful - 6 fun2 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

The only trans man I had sex with is post op trans man and it felt great.

[–]worried19 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

As a whole, less than 5% of transgender men have had procedures to create a phallus (8,32). One survey distinguished between the surgical options, reporting that 3% of transgender men have had phalloplasty and 19% want it in the future, while 2% have had metoidioplasty and 25% want it in the future (7).

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6626314

I'm not accusing you of lying, but if more than 95% of trans men have had no surgery, it seems odd to me that you would not only have found a passing trans men to have sex with, but one who has also had an exceedingly rare surgery. And at quite a young age. I had the impression you were in college?

[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers 3 insightful - 6 fun3 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Yes I was in college and he attended my school.