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[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

yo u don’t have the right to have unexpressed preferences honored

That’s some really rapey rhetoric if you think about it.

Like, before sex is someone really supposed to list off every single thing they don’t want, and if they don’t, they lose the right to say no to unwanted anal, or being urinated on, or the right to change their minds about something they had previously agreed to?

Thats absolutely horrifying.

[–]HeimdeklediROAR 1 insightful - 6 fun1 insightful - 5 fun2 insightful - 6 fun -  (5 children)

Its also not what I said. Why would anyone lose the right to say no?

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

When they lose the right to have undisclosed preferences respected.

That’s what you said.

[–]HeimdeklediROAR 1 insightful - 6 fun1 insightful - 5 fun2 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

No they don’t have the right in the first place. People aren’t mindreaders

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

And so because people aren’t mind readers, the rapey situation I previously mentioned is fine and dandy?

If I didn’t expressly say I don’t want anal sex, according to your statement, I have no right to have that respected if I don’t disclose it beforehand.

You are defending rape rn

[–]HeimdeklediROAR 1 insightful - 6 fun1 insightful - 5 fun2 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

What part of what I said in any way implies that you can’t turn down anal sex? Has a sea witch stolen both your voice and your ability to convey your feelings non-verbally?

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you can’t see how you’re implying that when you say “you lose the right to have unexpressed preferences honoured” maybe you should stop trying to tell women what our rights are until you can see the extremely obvious flaws in your rhetoric.

‘You lose the right to have unexpressed preferences honoured’ is rape apologia and support.