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[–]HeimdeklediROAR 1 insightful - 6 fun1 insightful - 5 fun2 insightful - 6 fun -  (8 children)

Its also not what I said. Why would anyone lose the right to say no?

[–]loveSloaneDebate King[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

They lose their right to say no when they aren’t told ahead of time there may be circumstances they’d say no to…

[–]HeimdeklediROAR 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

No they don’t. If a sexual partner brings up trying an act that someone doesn’t want to try them they can just say no to trying it.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I agree one thousand percent.

If the issue that crosses someone’s boundaries is mentioned before sexual interaction begins, there’s no issue of consent.

However, if it’s not mentioned until after or not mentioned at all, a boundary has been crossed.

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

When they lose the right to have undisclosed preferences respected.

That’s what you said.

[–]HeimdeklediROAR 1 insightful - 6 fun1 insightful - 5 fun2 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

No they don’t have the right in the first place. People aren’t mindreaders

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

And so because people aren’t mind readers, the rapey situation I previously mentioned is fine and dandy?

If I didn’t expressly say I don’t want anal sex, according to your statement, I have no right to have that respected if I don’t disclose it beforehand.

You are defending rape rn

[–]HeimdeklediROAR 1 insightful - 6 fun1 insightful - 5 fun2 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

What part of what I said in any way implies that you can’t turn down anal sex? Has a sea witch stolen both your voice and your ability to convey your feelings non-verbally?

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you can’t see how you’re implying that when you say “you lose the right to have unexpressed preferences honoured” maybe you should stop trying to tell women what our rights are until you can see the extremely obvious flaws in your rhetoric.

‘You lose the right to have unexpressed preferences honoured’ is rape apologia and support.