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[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Not like I have a whole lot of personal experience with this, but I'd just be open from the very beginning. That way you never have to decide when the right time to tell the child is.

I don’t think we’d ever not be honest about it. I do feel like it would be difficult to explain at too young ages though.

Maybe make a photo album for your life story and tell or show the story to your child so he or she just grows up knowing it.

This is an interesting idea! I don’t really have photos from when I was a child. My family has some I’m sure, but they sort of disappeared from view during my teens because I think my parents felt weird displaying them. I may think about doing this. I already have been scrapbooking the adoption process. Craft projects are fun!

[–]worried19 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wouldn't get into the nitty gritty of dysphoria with a young child, but maybe something like "When Mommy was little, she was a boy. When she grew up, she was unhappy and decided to live her life as a woman."

Remember little kids don't have any concept of what's normal and what's not normal. For them, their mother having been a boy once upon a time is normal until they're taught otherwise by society.

I already have been scrapbooking the adoption process. Craft projects are fun!

I had another idea. You know you can also make personalized books, either with photos or illustrations. You could create and print your own or go to a website to order one. There are lots of options.