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[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Am autistic and can confirm it’s absolutely got nothing to do with my sex other than a reluctance in the psych field to diagnose me because I was female.

Definitely no urge to invent a new gender just because I’m not great at certain things deemed ~for females~

Frankly it’s a little insulting for op to state that being on the spectrum means a woman is likely to require being called ze or xir or your majesty or something stupid like that.

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I didn’t know how to word it but I think it’s just another example of tras using another group of people to try to legitimize trans people or invoke sympathy and a sense of obligation to validate.

They obviously do it with women, but they do it with intersex conditions, black people, Holocaust victims, homosexuals, and now people on the spectrum. They know the comparisons will make people think twice about rejecting what they’re saying. Either because most people don’t fully understand the comparison or because when they do somewhat understand, they’re scared of being comparable to racists or homophobes.

I’ve even seen some say that pointing out that male bodies don’t function the same as female bodies or saying you’d never sleep with a “woman” who has a penis is straight up ableism.

I can’t tell if it’s an intentional tactic to pressure people into validating them or if it’s an attempt to diminish the fact that being trans is a lot different from any other marginalized group (like trying to normalize being trans by mixing it in with race and medical conditions etc). The only problem is trans people are the only invasive and sexist marginalized group.

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You are so right.

I remember seeing a lot of stuff from tra about how black women are supposedly less feminine somehow than white and Asian women so that somehow meant men were also women.

I’d hazard a guess most aren’t doing it to be intentionally offensive or manipulative, and are grasping at straws to keep the dream legitimised. Too invested in the identity to think about who you might be hurting. Hell I’d say some of these men are running and clutching at straws so hard is because this is the first time they have ever really wanted something (womanhood however they imagine it) and don’t get it.