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[–]divingrightintowork[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean I don't know how or why you think the way you do - you do seem to believe that "transwomen" face undue risk of threat or violence based on their being trans - but it's not entirely clear you do, that's just a tone your messages have indicating that you understand why a TW would feel like they had to lie about their sex (I also understand why they feel like they have to lie, I just think it's bunk.. Just like I understand why a man feels like he needs to kill his mistress lest his wife find out and his life "be destroyed." )

Anyway - it sounds like we're on the same page, people shouldn't hide certain stuff in certain situations, sometimes they do, there are other cases where it may not have been relevant to talk about how this apparent women lived as a man most of their life, this one it kind of was.