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People should use whichever pronouns roll off their tongues. If you have to repeatedly remind yourself that a man wants to be called she/them, then you shouldn't call that man she/them.

My ex-girlfriend's daughter (4 now but was 2 when we met) used male pronouns for me because I'm gnc/butch. We tried to convince her that I'm female, too, but she still saw me as a man.