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[–]branks4nothing 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I relate a lot to this. I'm butch-ish and definitely did the NLOG-thing as a teen, but I think it was a coping measure because I felt so deficient as a woman. Looking back, I think it was angst about being gay and not putting the pieces together yet. I don't know why everything clarified when I came out to myself, but damned if it didn't!