It would be so much easier if I had no sexual attraction to anyone ( Asexual )

submitted by blackpilllife from self.AskSaidIt

When learning about entering a peaceful state of mind you end up learning that the desire for what you don’t have is part of the suffering. When the desire is eliminated the suffering goes away. I used to have a strong desire to get a girlfriend and then I just gave up on trying to get a girlfriend because I learned that who people like is beyond my control the black pill theory helped with how I stopped trying to get a girlfriend.

My sexual attraction to ladys made me miserable and just brought out the worst in me because I got so insecure and miserable over failing to get what I wanted to get ( relationships ) this is why I think it would be easier if I was Asexual as I never would have wasted so much time trying to get what I can’t get if I where Asexual. They would also be the additional effect of not being so miserable and insecure about trying to get what I can’t get.

Being a straight guy has brought me to much trouble in life I’ve made my self easy to use for lady’s that never liked me I’ve found my self in a position where I stalked this lady. I never would have found my self doing this if I were Asexual I can tell you my bank balance would be much bigger if I were Asexual because I would not have wasted so much money on hookers. The sex is great and I’m thankfull prostitution is legal in Australia. The point of this post is that it I’m on the failing side of men who has had to many problems with being a straight guy due to my biggest weekness so that’s why i say it would be so much easier if I where Asexual ( someone with no sex attraction to anyone )

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[–]ActuallyNot 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Relationships build out of friendships. If you've found yourself stalking a lady, you need to grok that better.

If you've got too few friendships, then I recommend you out more time into following your other interests so that you're interacting more with like-minded people, or at least people with a common goal.

Being asexual would only help that to a certain extent. People need friendships for more than relationships that develop into sexual ones.

[–]blackpilllife[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I go to places to socialise with people to help with my problem with being lonley church is a good example of where I go for an attempt at making friends with others. I do focus on my interests how ever they only get me in to a position where I’m socially interacting with like minded people a small amount of the time. I’m a curious person who likes to go to the Libary a lot most people at the Libary are not willing to bring themselves in to a social interaction sometimes I get a small social interaction from others at the Libary

[–]Jiminy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That's the secret idea behind ssri drugs. They lower libido, which is the only source of depression

[–]gloomy_bear 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes and some people get pssd due to it

[–]SoCo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You are being poisoned with hormone disrupting chemicals. It is in all the food, health and beauty products, cloths, furniture, carpets, plastic container/packaging, the water, and even the air. Women are becoming depressed, anxiety ridden, and devoid of interest in sex. Men are becoming depressed, anxiety ridden, sexually frustrated, and eventually violent and irate. These are just the surface effects, both are having serious health problems such as cancers and immune disorders from this long term poisoning. BPA, microplastics, forever chemicals, fire retardants, herbicides, pesticides, RoundUp, DDT, food packaging, aluminum can liners...we are flooded with it. The vaccine seems to be impacting specifically male hormones, with their impact on igG4, too.

[–]SisterTwisters 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Women are becoming depressed, anxiety ridden, and devoid of interest in sex.

Janice: hold my beer.