Why are cluster b's so horrible?

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[–]Musky 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

People are shitty and they'll all let you down, they'll all lie to you, they'll all use you for their own benefit and toss you away afterwards. It's not because of a special condition unfortunately.

[–]SMCAB 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Dude, yes, people in general are and can be shitty, personality disorders are a whole new level. Especially Cluster B's.

I don't lie to my kids and people close to me, I don't use people, I don't gaslight people. I don't smear what's in my bag of shit on people, and if I do I clean it up. I act selflessly and find my worth in what I provide them. I finally found someone that acts kindly and actually cares about me, she's boring as shit, but she's real and it's on me to change what I'm attracted to.

[–]Musky 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

You're a good dude SMCAB.

[–]SMCAB 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I think you are too, American Muskrat.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

You're literally talking to someone with a cluster B disorder who does all of the things you listed.

[–]SMCAB 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Maybe, but I don't have friends on the internet like you guys do, don't take that the wrong way, it's no judgment whatsoever, it's just not me. I don't hang out in chat, I don't know anyone here other than the comments they produce on a variety of topics. And my comment stands because he's not a useful idiot, and understands what one is.

I'm never going to be in a interpersonal relationship with him or anyone else on a computer. So......context I guess???

I won't say a word on whether you're correct or not, because I'll never know, and I'm assuming you do from what I've read around here over the years, so if that's the case, I'm sorry. Part of the disorder is that I would never know that unless I got close to them.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Fair enough.

[–]gloomy_bear[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah I've dealt w jerkwads and they're obviously pieces of work, but I agree cluster b's are a lot worse.