I'm curious, What do you guys think girls like the most in a man?

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[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Feeling safe, protected and loved. You have to actually build a relationship to get this though. That's what the dumbass incels don't get, it's not going to happen on day one of meeting a woman, you have to prove you're a good man over a period of time.

[–]Mcheetah 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Bad women out there cannot determine what makes a "good man." That's what most modern women don't get because they conflate having a good-heart with being "tall, confident, successful, and a simp." The Halo Effect, but with women, it's gone Super Saiyan. Most genuinely good men are the most-lonely ones, while women continue to date Chad and Tyrone, get treated like shit by them cause they're trying to turn a booty call into a wedding, then will bitch how "all men ain't shit" because they literally only go after the most successful dudes who'll never have to worry about being alone or running out of options, while they themselves offer literally nothing in return besides their bodies, if even that.

And the few actual good women out there, don't selfishly ask a man to be selfless for her and "spoil" her, because "vagina."

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I never said anything about men being selfless or women getting spoiled. I probably don't know what it's like out there in the dating world for people and I'm sorry you have to experience it. You're just so bitter that it's not a surprise to me that you have trouble meeting a decent woman. You've actually said that you think human beings are all stupid and garbage. Maybe you should reflect on that.

[–]Mcheetah 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You're just so bitter that it's not a surprise to me that you have trouble meeting a decent woman.

No, you're not going to pull the "it's just your attitude keeping you from meeting women" Reddit bullshit here, as if all men start off jaded and red-pilled. Get the fuck outta here with that S.I.G.N. Language horseshit. A man can be the most ideal partner in the world for a female, but if he's under six feet tall, not wealthy and successful, not a cocky asshole with an ego the size of Jupiter, and not willing to simp (aka "be a provider for a shitty spoiled woman who probably makes as much or more than he does"), he might as well join /r/braincels right then and there, or some shit.

I'm not the typical guy willing to overlook, excuse, and deny so many modern women's shitty behavior. Considering women have ALWAYS held all the power in sex, dating, and relationships, they don't get to then say "well it's not our fault!" when half of all Zoomers end up being alone, virgins, or have never been in a relationship before. As if MOST MEN aren't willing to drag their balls through broken glass to make women happy, but then women want to go "Well, it could be a number of unknown factors why everyone is single and lonely nowadays" while they're 3-out-of-10-looking single mothers working at Walmart demanding a 6'2" millionaire who spends 20 hours a week in the gym. GTFO here! I know women like to deny all responsibility in life, but that's not how this fucking shit works.

I know my own worth, regardless how many women are blind to it simply cause I'm a short fuck.

You've actually said that you think human beings are all stupid and garbage.

No, I said most human beings are stupid and literally contribute nothing to the advancement of the species (aka "average." Worthless. Disposable.) And am I wrong about that? However, I don't blame them. I blame this broken system billionaires and tyrants have created. And part of my IRL job is trying to do what I can against the odds to help others through this fucked up society we're all stuck living in.

[–]monkeymagic 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

this might have had some truth to it 60-100 years ago. in 2023 it just makes you sound like a victim.

[–]WoodyWoodPecker 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

MONEY! WOMEN ARE HOES!

[–]IkeConn 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

6 feet tall, 6 inches, and 6 figures.

[–]Tom_Bombadil 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Girls want men, who act like men. Dignified, but not condescending (ideally). A man worthy of respect.

"Incels" resent "Chads" for this. And they also resent women for putting up with "bad" behavior from "chads". Much of it is bad behavior.

But they should ask themselves, "Why would any woman want a man who didn't respect himself, and believe in his own self-worth?"

Women leave there husbands when they stop respecting them, or find someone whom they respect more.

Men are generally willing to put up with more nonsense.

As such. Women file for divorce more often than men.

[–]Mcheetah 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Simpery. Women want a "provider." A financial provider (wealth.) A security provider (height/physical strength.) And a confidence provider (ego.) This is female nature. That's why in today's modern age, the best thing a man can do is avoid (most) women when it comes to romantic relationships. Not saying you have to be alone forever, but like 95-98% of women out there will actively make your life worse. Unless you find a unicorn out there who happens to be a woman who actually isn't selfish. (Lord knows I sure as hell tried to find one in the modern era.) Good luck with that!

[–]Brewdabier 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Long ago I listen to tom leykis on the radio, he covered this topic. He said when talking to a woman what's the one thing they always ask ?. 1.What kind of work do you do. 2. Does it pay well. After talking he let woman call in and give there opinions, they all agreed. here's the caveat, the woman I met never ask either questions and for the first two years we had no idea how much the other earned. When she learned my worth she was shocked to learn I had well over well I have more than I or my son and wife, 3 grand kids, step daughters can spend.

[–]Gaslov 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Women like the chest, forearms, and collarbone area.

[–]fschmidt 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Immorality and stupidity (for women of modern culture)

[–]CheeseWizard 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hear the register kaching

[–]William_World 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

big chin

[–]ID10T 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Self confidence is the most attractive feature a man can have. After that sense of humor, good looks, intelligence, height, wealth, talent. You really only need one of those plus self confidence to get women. Two or more and you get women easy.

Other than that depends on what they are looking for. For just a hook up? Good looks, tattoos maybe. For a relationship? Good career, sense of humor, and if they don't have daddy issues (which is rare) they will appreciate a guy who treats them well. Women want a man who makes them and a potential family feel protected and cared for in a life partner

[–]gosso920 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The size of his... bank account.

[–]ZekeTheAnt 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Prove" sounds like an obligation.

"Me" hasn't to prove anything. Lies tend to overcomplicate things, aside from the fact that betting (which lies always are) seemingly is a sort of behavior that women use more than men do.

Simplify your life by implementing three simple ideas:

  • Is it good ?
  • Is it useful ?
  • Is it reasonable ?

If it ain't: It either takes time or isn't worth talking about.

Beauty is simple.