vagatarian

Sorry for the late reply. Firstly "I was born this way" has never been insulting to gay people, but apparently it's "implicitly threatening to bisexuals". It makes bisexuls feel threatened, but not for the reasons you stated. You don't have to be the biggest fan of "born this way" argument for it to be a fact for homosexuals. Just because the gender-woo-ery hijacked the argument doesn't mean we have changed.

There is the real "messy" reason we're homosexuals and the "nice argument" reason you want us to give. You simply cannot fathom "born this way" on behalf of a sexual orrientation that is not yours. I, as some homosexuals don't fully understand bisexuals, but I don't tell them how they should explain bisexuality. Some people go as far as to claim bisexuality isn't a real thing just a heterosexual or homosexual person really confused. That statement might be offessive to bis because people who are not bi are speaking and making arguments on behalf of bisexuality. The argument most homosexuals use is "yes I was born this, so no I can't help, yes people have attempted to help it and yes they failed miserably in the end". Actual homosexuls don't do this for fashion, or to boast, and are in real pschological pain because they mostly try to help it and fail. Most homosexuals don't come from "progressive" countries and constantly prove the "I was born this way" argument. As someone already stated, "at the end of the day people need to butt out of others’ sexuality".