They’re self IDing, what’s the problem LGBTIQQAAXYZWTF? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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But also, do straight women not realize that Bisexuals exist and they are also violent sexual predators, to the same degree as their heterosexual counterparts?

Gay spaces have never been safe spaces for women.

What Happened to Monkeypox? by Tarrock in politics

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The gay community learned from AIDS, practiced risk reducing behavior, and got vaccinated to stop the spread.

Straight people can't do that with COVID because the average breeder has the IQ of a potato and can barely get pants on.

Stop all the moral panic over drag queen story time. No, wait… by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It's the worst public relations disaster I've ever seen

Worse than the psychos showing up with GUNS to a children's event to threaten people?

The Straight Trans Activist: The Modern Homophobe. by suedonym1984 in LGBDropTheT

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I think the fun thing is that the overwhelming majority of these nonbinary tenderqueers and political pansexuals will end up with an opposite sex partner when they get tired of performing "queerness" and retreat to systems that empower breeders.

Pack up quickly, guys, before they realize they need us back! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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And then they bring their heterosexual boyfriends with them.

The devastating impact of social media on children that’s created the trans epidemic by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Part of it is probably because people are able to talk about being trans with other people without being murdered.

Boundries by HelloMomo in LGBDropTheT

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"what are you pronouns"

He/him. It's not rocket surgery. It's the ability to listen to a question and then respond appropriately. If you're too socially fragile to do so, that's a "you" problem.

Boundries by HelloMomo in LGBDropTheT

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"I use xe/xer/xem, what are your pronouns?"--and if I refuse, I risk social ostracization, up to job loss depending on the situation.

Honestly? If you're so fragile that someone asking what pronouns you use causes you to shut down and be incapable of generating a response like "I use he" or "I use she", you're probably incapable of handling the social stresses necessicary of a job that involves interaction with others.

Like...thats not a healthy way of responding to a question someone asks you.

Boundries by HelloMomo in LGBDropTheT

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Pronouns are meant to Identify one's Sex.

Someone's sex is literally none of your business until they decide it is.

Boundries by HelloMomo in LGBDropTheT

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I'm about to tell you something extremely brave and controversial, that is probably going to upset everyone here:

It's not up to you to decide what pronouns someone uses. If you don't like them, don't refer to them. Someone telling you what pronouns they use is them setting a boundary with you, and if you don't want to respect someone else's boundaries, don't interact with them. This has nothing to do with "Queer theory" and everything to do with basic social interaction and respecting boundaries others set.

Creating LGB spaces irl? by hufflepuff-poet in LGBDropTheT

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In reality, 99% of the GenderQueer He/They Lesbian stargenders you see whining on social media don't leave their houses. You'll never meet them in real life and the majority of TheyFABs are faking it for attention.

The people who exist in the meat space are a LOT different from the people who shitpost to twitter and Tumblr.

Gay spaces are basically any gay bar with a jockstrap night. Lesbian and Bisexual spaces aren't anywhere near as common because Bisexuals and Lesbians can exist in heterosexual spaces without immediate fear of physical violence for their queerness.