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Why the hell do some trans-focused "lesbian" communities talk about being a "top" or "bottom"? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]Mandarz11 33 insightful - 4 fun33 insightful - 3 fun34 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I keep seeing this pop up on LGBT subs recently and I’m siding with the trans ideology or people who fantasize about wlw relationships. r/AL has posts weekly from people asking if they sound more like a top or bottom, like it’s just another label to add to their Twitter bio.

Came out 10 years ago as a lesbian, turned 30 this year and can’t think of a fellow gay lady who uses this. Generally been pretty open to discussing sex topics with my friends. I’ve joked with an ex that she was a pillow queen but that was after we learned the phrase from watching, “The L Word”.

“I am and have always been a woman” by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

[–]Mandarz11 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Right, and will probably move onto something else whenever the next trend comes up.

How dare you equate a penis to a man! by PasLagardere in LGBDropTheT

[–]Mandarz11 13 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

It really has come down to this on that sub. Just them fetishizing stereotypes and arguing about how powerful their penises still make them feel bc that sure is a lesbian thing to do.

r/BiologicalLesbians Banned On Reddit. by votkriscan in LGBDropTheT

[–]Mandarz11 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This was the final straw for me using Reddit. Every other LGB sub has turned into a “uwu am I valid” karma dump.