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[–]Mandarz11 33 insightful - 4 fun33 insightful - 3 fun34 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

I keep seeing this pop up on LGBT subs recently and I’m siding with the trans ideology or people who fantasize about wlw relationships. r/AL has posts weekly from people asking if they sound more like a top or bottom, like it’s just another label to add to their Twitter bio.

Came out 10 years ago as a lesbian, turned 30 this year and can’t think of a fellow gay lady who uses this. Generally been pretty open to discussing sex topics with my friends. I’ve joked with an ex that she was a pillow queen but that was after we learned the phrase from watching, “The L Word”.

[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

like it’s just another label to add to their Twitter bio.

Lol, that makes a lot of sense. Collect 'em all!

Thanks for sharing your experience, I appreciate it. I am still in the closet and very private about my sexual history so I don't talk about this stuff with anyone IRL, helpful to hear I'm not the only one who hasn't heard any other gay women use these terms.