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Being a lesbian is alllllllllllll about gender identity ladies by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yikes. If that was the case, just by his existence, I became asexual.

Thoughts on the theory of LGB orientation and traumaDiscussion

by BiHorror to /s/LGBDropTheT from self.LGBDropTheT

Thoughts on the theory of LGB orientation and trauma by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Alright, thanks! I'll look up on it.

Thoughts on the theory of LGB orientation and trauma by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What is the logic of this? lol

You know that, I know that. But, it was this logic among these people. Realistically, as you stated, if that was the case, it would be "causing" the opposite.

The only thing I can think of, is that they're trying to compare and use those pedo studies ("sexual abuse causes pedophilia"), but even that, still wouldn't make sense. Plus, severely fucked up.

Queer ideology is harming gay people by Lovebirds_fury in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I agree with this, and it is becoming an issue. Especially with the whole "(LGB)T are pedophiles" thing because of the whole drag story time, etc... Which being found out that supposedly some of the storytellers are offenders.

Acceptance rates seem to slowly be going down. Fortunately, I have seen some people differentiate between LGB and TQ+ when it comes to all this nonsense but still...

"Louise Redknapp pulls out of Eternal reunion after her bandmates REFUSE to play LGBTQ+ festivals and Pride over claims they are being 'hijacked' by the trans community" - Daily Mail (UK) by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Good on them. Just hope that this doesn't lead to damn death and/or rape threats towards the girls (very ladylike™️).

Apotemnophilia by jet199 in therearetwogenders

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I hate this new Twitter update. I wished they would just show the whole thread.

Thoughts on the theory of LGB orientation and trauma by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

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Despite not being 100% genetical, how much would it realistically be then? Too bad there aren’t many studies on it. But, considering why with homophobia, it would make sense. At least from the arguments I’ve read on against studying.

Two studies I can think of (and mostly brought up) are the twins, and brain differences.

Thoughts on the theory of LGB orientation and trauma by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

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Maybe I’m reading your comment wrong, but most of the studies were more focused on LG (which is why I wrote homophobia). The sexual abuse by same-sex would supposedly “cause” same sex attraction. Completely. Which was also what these types of people were always preaching in what “caused” homosexuality.

Thoughts on the theory of LGB orientation and trauma by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

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It wasn’t sexual abuse by the opposite sex. It was same sex abuse which would “cause” the same-sex attraction. These were the types of studies I kept seeing from these types of people who used it to preach that homophobia or how homosexuality “starts.”

Thoughts on the theory of LGB orientation and trauma by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

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True, I can agree with that. It’s just those studies, and when I encounter these people, they always bring them up.

What’s the ratio of sexualities in trans people? (Very telling) by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So. Much. Delusion.

Kai advises a trans man on how to embrace his masculinity and make space for himself in cis, gay culture 🙄🙄🙄 by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Gender euphoria" ew 🤮

Kai advising her to make a space within the culture feels like it's just going to end as a 2.0 version of that one story. The one with the chick who went to gay orgy, and none of the men wanted anything to do with her. Of course, unless she tries to beat them into gross conversion/submission.

Opinions of the usage of gay slang? by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

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That's another thing I noticed too. But, more of others referring to feminine men as a such, regardless of sexual orientation. While barely doing the same with calling women butch or stud.

they find these gay communities on Reddit who give them all kinds of praise and up votes for posting thirst pics.

True. Seems to also the "quirky" people too, wanting to be included. With some LGB just going with it.

So I'm into biological females and female genitalia by RedJackal in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yikes. I really wish Twitter didn't change it so you gotta need an account to view the rest of thread and replies. I wanna see the comments to this.

Woman plays on women's team and is hailed as Stunning and Brave. by xandit in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And they say tomboy erasure isn't real!

At most, all I could say is he's "trying." Play them at their own game. But, it seems the comments are the ones making most sense. As to what you're saying.

From one man to a bunch of others: *Why* are men so fascinated with lesbians? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Poor wife needs to run for the hills. ASAP.

Also, the audacity of that one comment comparing their nonsense to cancer.

Ah the nostalgia for gentler times when one was a zygote by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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"Stop saying LGBTQ+ all the time" ... And who caused this exactly?

I wonder if Tatchell still supports this by xandit in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ew. That's disgusting.

If he believed that in the past, then he most definitely would now. Especially, the new nonsense coming up (ex "MAPs").

Opinions of the usage of gay slang? by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

[–]BiHorror[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

True. Although, from what I've seen: most AAVE used today isn't really person specific, if the makes sense. You'll see people saying stuff like "bussing," but wouldn't dare call themselves brothers/sistas. Very black associated terms.

Kinda funny, because if someone non-black were to do that, others would've been calling them out like no tomorrow. The same people to turn around, and make justifications on why straight relationships can have "tops/bottoms".

Opinions of the usage of gay slang? by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

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I tried to explain that a straight woman can't be a top, but she wasn't having any of that.

Oh man, I had to deal with those types too. It's so interesting how they get offended when you tell them the origins behind the words, and how it doesn't include them. I had one guy try to use stone butch lesbians as a justification on why hetero relationships can have tops/bottoms...

I've seen the other terms being used too. Although, I can see some "reasoning" on why it can be used (tiny attempt of trying to see their logic). Like "spilling the tea" since it doesn't really specify people like tops/bottoms, or butch and femme. But, when they misuse it, and completely disort the meaning, it's an issue.

Opinions of the usage of gay slang? by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

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Not intended seems like a "cultural appropriation" argument ... Culture should be shared.

Sure, culture can be shared. But, I'm a woman. Which is why I wrote it wasn't intended for me. As it seems odd to describe myself/other women as "tops" when we don't have the package for it. I guess it could "work" for fellow lesians and FEB into toys.

Which is kinda funny, because I had an straight person try to use that as a justification on why hetero sex can have tops/bottoms (the existence of stone butch lesbians).

Opinions of the usage of gay slang?Discussion

by BiHorror to /s/LGBDropTheT from self.LGBDropTheT

Opinions about this? by [deleted] in LGB

[–]BiHorror 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same. Without trying to be disregarding, it feels like he's trying too hard? I don't know how to put it into words, but he sounds like he's the type of LGB who really wants acceptance from straight people imo. Idk why, I just get that feeling. So, when other gay men aren't putting up with that, rather go their own way, it knocks him out that mindset for a sec.

Where does he talk about his friends' feelings? I know he said he feel bad for them, but maybe I keep skipping it.