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[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Yep. I have to set an example for my daughter. Even though I hate the mom. It’s my job to be the person I want her to be.

Thanks for the reminder.

I’ll look up enmeshment.

[–]In-the-clouds 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I hate the mom.

I think I understand now how you chose your username. In your post, you also admitted:

I am not perfect...

We all have had faults and all have made problems for others. We need their forgiveness. And we should forgive those that hurt us. I recommend you forgive the mother of your children. Your children still love her, don't they?

I am glad for you, that you have more opportunities to be with your children. I did not realize you were also a father. I have some respect for you because you want to be active in the lives of your children. I believe you could have avoided the whole court system altogether if you had forgiven the mother of your children and given your concerns to the Lord to handle. Men that trust in the Lord receive his help. But if you cannot forgive her faults, neither can God forgive yours.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yea man, you could be right.

I will work on forgiveness. That might be key in raising my daughter properly.

I got to go to a soccer game today! It was exciting. I do want to be in my kids lives.