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[–]dissidentrhetoric 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

It is all an ego trip, they don't want to show any interest and when they do it is like they have better things to do so you better be worth my time type of attitude. Modern women, then they claim that the man should entertain them. Maybe they should get a hobby, I am not sure what you mean by friends, do they want someone to go somewhere with? This type of woman in the op, she just wants validation and she gets that by stringing as many guys along as she can. Her ideal situation is having like 10+ guys dming her all day long.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think I could have scored. But she started with, “I was with my guy friend”. And it’s like, I’m not having any of that shit. Guy friend my ass. I’m not an idiot.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Truth be told, a normal woman would have stopped responding after you asserted that guys and girls can't be friends. One way or another, you dodged a bullet.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yea. I’m not getting girl friends any way. But it was annoying.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You're not wrong but you did walk into being blocked lol

[–]Airbus320 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Probably a thot anyway

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

For sure was.

[–]Musky 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I've had a number of purely platonic female friends. Like you wrote, there's always a reason for it. It's not always terrible, sometimes you just don't feel that way about them. Other times it is because they've been passed around their friend circle like a joint already, or they're psycho.

But yeah, you can't really trust the guys, and the women are one drunken, lonely, angry night away from breaking your heart.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lien I’ve had girl friends too. Almost all of them wanted to sleep with me. Or I wanted to sleep with them.

The ones who were real, nothing there, we were forced together. Like we worked together. Or whatever. But it was just friends. We never watched movies and shit togther.

That always means there’s something more.

[–]brimshae 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

So?

[–]LarrySwinger2 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

You're being a sperglord.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

That actually sounds epic. Lord of the spergs, ruling over a dominion of obedient spergs who do you bidding at your whim. One could take over the world and become divine ruler of all the spergs in the land, demanding respect and Cheetos.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Okay.

[–]gloomy_bear 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

what is this on

[–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Saidit chat

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Tinder

[–]gloomy_bear 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

two weeks late, but I've been flagged on tinder as a minor, despite being 22 years old, and for my bio. They asked for selfie verification, but it's glitchy af so I deleted tinder.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Bumble is better. You can send videos.

My trick is sending stupid jokes as videos, and then basically invite women over at like 9pm, or be like “it’s so boring here” I wish I was not lonely.

[–]gloomy_bear 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I agree that Bumble is 1,000 times better. I also like Hinge. I feel you on that being lonely. I wish I wasn't as lonely, but at least I have my immediate family and friends lol.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I can try to give you tips?

It’s all about wins, and small steps to build your confidence. I get a lot of my wins hiking, telling jokes, and the gym.

[–]MightyMorphinFaggot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Why even bring up men friends unless she was already guilty.

Fucking slag.

I wouldn't try to date a girl and in the same first breathe say "oh I hang out with a bunch of women btw, it's no big deal."

As an adult it wasn't a problem until I brought it up for mystery reasons.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Normally, I would ignore it, and just fuck like 4 times and leave. But she said it is glaringly. Like she was picking a fight. And she was not that cute. It’s like “fine” you want to take a shot, I’ll bite.

She wanted me to look over it, and like for her to get away with it. Girl do this shit all the time, and I ignore it for pussy. But I was not in the mood.