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It was narrated that ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) said:
the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:
“Your children are a gift from Allaah to you:
‘He bestows female (offspring) upon whom He wills, and bestows male (offspring) upon whom He wills’
[al-Shoora 42:49 – interpretation of the meaning].
So they and their wealth are for you, if you have need of it.”
(narrated by al-Haakim, 2/284; al-Bayhaqi, 7/480) The hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 2564, where he says:
"This hadeeth contains an important fiqhi point which is that it explains that the famous hadeeth, “You and your wealth are for your father” (al-Irwaa’ 838) does not give the father absolute permission to take whatever he wants from his son’s wealth. Far from it! But he may take whatever he is in need of. And Allaah knows best."
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