Guys - How bad is the dating world?
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[–]Waxsimulacra 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 3 years ago (8 children)
Unfortunately not a lot of relationships are very fulfilling. Add to that the stress that comes with forcing something that doesn't fit and making compromises to keep your spouse happy, plenty of men are deciding the juice isn't worth the squeeze. You can have female friends. You can have FWB's. But why get married or commit if you're not planning on children?
[–]Canbot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 3 years ago (7 children)
You should have kids. Otherwise what is the point of your existence? Are you changing the world in some meaningful way? If not, and you don't even produce someone who might, you are just wasting resources.
[–]Waxsimulacra 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 3 years ago (6 children)
Being alive is wasting resources? You should have kids if you want and are up to the responsibility. It's not a task to be taken lightly and to each their own.
[–]Canbot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 3 years ago (5 children)
How is it not? When you die all your experiences die with you. Nothing is remembered. What exactly are you leaving behind? What difference have you made besides using up resources?
[–]Waxsimulacra 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 3 years ago (4 children)
This is so absurd I can't even imagine how you came to this conclusion. So every great visionary, philosopher, mathematician, architect, author, musician, artist, humanitarian, captain of industry, religious leaders did NOTHING if they didn't squirt out a rugrat?
[–]Canbot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 3 years ago (3 children)
Are you changing the world in some meaningful way?
Did you even read what I wrote? Or are you just one of these NPC leftists who skims for key words to pick the right pre programmed response? Are you any of those things?
[–]Waxsimulacra 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 3 years ago (2 children)
It doesn't matter what I am and am not doing. Your reply that a person cannot change the world in some meaningful way without having offspring is patently absurd but that's a nice ad hominem. A sure sign you've lost the debate. Thanks for playing.
[–]Canbot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 3 years ago (1 child)
This is what I wrote:
Are you changing the world in some meaningful way? If not, and you don't even produce someone who might, you are just wasting resources.
Then you replied with:
So every great visionary, (blah blah blah) did NOTHING if they didn't squirt out a rugrat?
So clearly you did not understand English. Or you are this woman.
If you made the world better in some way that will survive you then you are not a waste of resources. If you have kids that constitutes making the world a better place. Otherwise you are a waste of resources. So, yes, it does matter what you are or are not doing.
[–]Waxsimulacra 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 3 years ago (0 children)
If you are doing nothing now then adding the responsibility of rearing a child isn't going to help. It's a long arduous journey not to be taken lightly and I don't blame people for wanting to do it. If they're losers now then why do you want their loser offspring anyway?
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