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[–]Chipit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I've just found that lots and lots of people out there don't have an ingroup, and thus they cling to their online ones fiercely. And God forbid you, an outsider, stumble upon their "community" and expect it to be about the title in the header.

I remember one forum where some idiot poster was spewing off-topic idiocy everywhere, so I asked that it stop. I got viciously attacked because evidently this was some 14 year old kid and it was OK if she broke the rules even if they applied to everyone else. That's when I made the connection to ingroups and outgroups. They identified with their ingroup by defending the ingroup against me, the outgroup. Well excuse the hell out of me for wanting to find an out of print manual for my car stereo and asking about it on a forum supposedly dedicated to vintage car stereos. Turns out they didn't really do that any more, and it was more about the annual get-together that they had and making jokes and sharing kids photos. Yikes.

[–]Aureus[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I've thought about it, and I actually disagree with your earlier post. Ingroups are important, but not the ingroups you have in mind.

See your own post here, which changed my mind: https://saidit.net/s/whatever/comments/4yjw/saidit_should_be_seen_as_an_intellectual_platform/ilt8

The earlier Internet you describe is an ingroup. But it's not an ingroup based on arbitrary friendships. It's an ingroup based on skill, and in some ways that led to shared views about the world, and higher-quality discussions.

IMO a successful web community has to have an ingroup. If it accepts anyone and everyone, the quality goes down to the lowest common denominator. However, that ingroup should be based on skill, intelligence, or some other kind of merit, rather than just personal ties. It shouldn't be either too inclusive, or too exclusive.

[–]magnora7 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

IMO a successful web community has to have an ingroup. If it accepts anyone and everyone, the quality goes down to the lowest common denominator.

You have a good understanding of how this actually works. It's can't be a free-for-all, or things will quickly go bad, and we have many sites that clearly show this, like voat, poal, and others