Uh.... That was my point. I did exactly that because of the risks involved. Don't want to face the consequences of having a kid, don't have sex with people you're not willing to have a kid with.

Given that fact, I don't really have any sympathy. I know nobody likes it when you hold women to the same standards as a man, but you'll have to forgive me for not really caring about giving women rights that a man doesn't have.